Feeling comfortable with yourself is all about being whole.
you need to have that same happiness you feel with others when you are alone.
It is an enchanting thing to have love for someone and missing them comes naturally.
but it should never lead to losing yourself or not being able to enjoy spending your time alone.
There are colours in life that you need to experience on your own to show them to others.
or to keep them and make them your own.
or, to use wonderful kate nash´s words:
”I can be alone
yeah, I can watch a sunset on my own.”
…Although it is magical sharing these things with the one you love :)